THE MOST DEAR AND LOVED
By Ilya Lobov | June 05th, 2017
You are the most beautiful in the world,
I know you better than others
I understand that you are responsible for me,
And with joy I accept it.
I dedicated these lines to my mother. I do not think that my classmates ever thought about the question: «What role do moms play in the life of growing up children?».
We consider mother as a matter of course in early childhood. In my younger adolescence, I had a feeling of anxiety when my mother first fell ill. And I saw a helpless close person. But she found words that made my fears-doubts disappear.
Now my mother is fifty already. And we have a different relationship. My older brother is 2 times younger than my mother, and I am more than three times younger. But now I realized how important it is to me the whole mother’s life experience, how important is her support in my endeavours.
There is no talk about my mother’s work, about my studies, about our school in my family. Mom was able to build a life in our family so much that the home atmosphere was filled with discussion of movies, read games, impressions from exhibitions and trips.
I was very worried about how to tell my mom about my intention to continue my education after school in another city. But surprisingly, she supported my decision immediately.
Of course, in the decisive moment of choice, my mother takes moral and financial responsibility on herself. I look at her at this moment and I think how good that I was born in this family, thanks to which I became such person as I am. Many years later, I will have my own family, but I will bring up children by methods used by my parents to bring up me and my brother. These are,probably, family bonds.